Buddy System

“Two are better than one. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”
– Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

We don’t sit around as little girls dreaming of the day we will become a birthmom. Typically, a turn of events in our lives leads us down the road to making that decision. It’s hard enough walking the road as a birthmom alone. Walking with someone who understands makes the journey a little easier.

We hope that the Buddy System will provide you someone to walk with.

If you’d like a buddy, please fill out the form below. We will then match you with a birthmom “buddy.” As soon as we have a buddy for you, we will email each of you with contact information for your buddy. Our hope is that you will bond as birthmoms, become friends and be able to ease each other’s pain a little.

Also, if you and your buddy have lost touch and you would like a new buddy, please do not fill out the form again. Simply email BirthMom Buds and let us know!

Your Name

Your Email


Your Age

Your Birthdate

Child's Name (Optional)

Child's Birthdate

Placement Date (if you did not place at birth)

Adoption Type

Anything else that might be helpful in matching you with a buddy?

How did you hear about BirthMom Buds?

Note: You should receive email confirmation of your form within a few days of filling it out. If you do not receive email confirmation, it means your form probably did not go through and you may want to email us so that we can check on your form.